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Why would SI. Deny me access to the forum. I understand I'm the OW that's odd to seek out help. But really? I need help too. I'm in a mess of destroying my life and my AP's life as well. Just want help. Such bitter revengeful people and just still pissed off after 3-5 years later. This is my hope? Something is not right. Need help. That's all. Candy

Asked by candy s. on 12/17/2015

5 Answers
Tara H.12/18/2015

Hi,

You probably won't get much support there anyway, the few Others I've seen on there are flayed. Have a look at the Loveshack forums, I think they have a specific section for other men and women.

Good luck!
Nora L.2/20/2018

You cant belong to the forum if you are actively in your affair. End your affair, alert the administration of the site, and they will allow you to join. They offer you a limited amount of time to get your head out of your ass and end the affair... after that, youre no longer welcomes.
Pam F.3/15/2017

James W: How could Candy S have POSSIBLY done something which is prohibited in the guidelines if she hasn't even been able to REGISTER yet? Puh-leeze.
Cheryl L.11/9/2018

LOL... that would be one expensive cup of Kool-Aid I'd be paying for if I actually paid to join that hot mess. Yeah, so... no.
James W.12/18/2015

Candy:

Access to the forums is "public" you only need a registered user to post.
There are guidelines posted - and if you attempted to or did register and were denied - that means you said/did something which is prohibited as noted in the guidelines.

I suggest you attempt registration again and see what the moderators have to say regarding -

When I first "got on" the site - I violated a rule or two and was warned - not blocked.

Not sue if it matters, but I had read for a couple of months and opted for the "silver" level ($$$ up front) and maybe that affected their judgement?

Given what I have seen on the site, hard to believe you would be denied unless something really egregious was done by you.

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